Distance relationship, survival guide.

Distance relationship… Two words and so much can be said around it. If someone would have asked to explain how it is to have someone whom you love apart from you, I would just say that’s hard. It’s hard both mentally and physically. Who wouldn’t need a hug on a rainy day or an instant support after a bad working day? On the other hand, sharing positive energy and emotions in the moment is as well something that would be missing. 

Our relationship has started or better to say almost didn’t start due to the lack of time that we had a head of us. It was 3 weeks prior to our graduation. These would have been possibly last 3 weeks that we see each other, thought Alexandrina. “You can always recover time”, said Giuseppe. Would you believe him at that stage of acquaintance? I didn’t, silly 🙂 

Since our first time of separating on the 23rd September, 2018, Giuseppe has flew to Dubai and has absolutely no idea in what life would throw at both of us. He had started his mandatory internship and she was desperately waiting for his voice message as they couldn’t even make a video call, it is banned in Middle East, can you believe it? But honestly, how long can you resist staying on your phone 24/7 when there is so much life offers us. 

It was the lady’s birthday and he has sent a package to her place that apparently has only reached her 2 weeks later and then a viber call, that was disrupted, he forgot to top his phone up. And most importantly, they were still apart. Oh wow, what else could be wrong, you would think. But apparently, those two were completely into each other and nothing else seemed to bother them even on the distance of 4,883 km. 

So, how do you deal with this situation? Would you cry that its just your destiny of being apart, would you take the first flight to Dubai or would you just wait for his first step? Believe me, if you have really fall in love with that man, you would identify for yourself at least two ways out of the situation and this is what we did. He had a plan going on, but she wasn’t sharing hers as well… 

Interviews, emails, recruiters, flight to Switzerland. For what? She was planning to go after him without him knowing, but he was desperately repeating: “Alexandrina, please, don’t come here, it’s hard!”. What she could do? She listened to her heart, it didn’t lie. 

She was constantly going through the voice messages and pictures that they have managed to click, had taken flight to be in the same place where they have had their first date night, walked by the lake where they were looking at each other with the sparks in their eyes. Same places actually are not the same when we don’t have our people with us. 

You can go through many books or stories, watch those perfectly shot movies about love on distance, still you wouldn’t want to be the one. And yes, there are people who have their boyfriends or husbands away for months and years, and I have my respect towards them. But as we are going through it now together, I understand that the best cure for distance is getting closer to each other. Be patient, it won’t be resolved in a blink of an eye, but it is so much worth it in the end. 

Do you believe they made it? Is love that powerful to cross oceans and continents?

Expect the unexpected,

Make love and be seen!

The way you melt on me, the use of your soft hands and fingers to touch me, the whisper of your desire that put me on fire!

I always feel the heat when you slip down your hand, they pass through my chest and stomach, and I feel a weird sensation cover all my body. A question of minutes or even seconds, and the temperature goes up, sometimes me, sometimes you are up… I love kissing every part of your body and seeing you turning on, where the sky is very near. 

The rides are adventurous, you on top of me and your head on my shoulders, the fantastic end that is our best part, when we realize that it was really a long way. 

It was a late Saturday, and naturally we love to have sex. As a usual night, we end up kissing slowly, taking off all the clothes and start the amazing adventure that we would like to never end. We were into it, enjoying every pleasure of that moment when we realized that it wasn’t the perfect place and time. 

It is a risk for us to go out and maintain our limits, therefore that night was one of this! We are from the opinion that experiences are the most beautiful things in life, and arrived at this point, we can write a book full of stories where our love and passion is unlimited. 

It was a confusion, we didn’t know what to do and the blanket was the only solution to cover ourselves. It ended in a laugh, and a lot of shyness in our eyes.

If you are a crazy couple, don’t follow rules but do what you feel. Life is one, we shouldn’t consider limits, but use your time to experience new things. Be always near your partner, feel the love and pleasure, don’t forget to be on top or under of her/him. That feeling is completely heaven that will be never forgotten!

Amore & Magia

Photo session as a source of a memory keeper

Usually during the best moments of your life you would rarely crab your camera to film it, you would rather enjoy the moment without any redundant breath or blink of an eye. This was my biggest motivation to record our memories, capture the moments of tenderness and euphoria, to carry out these emotions across the years. There’s no need for a special occasion or right moment, professional photographer or a perfect weather. You & Him. All the needed tools.

Even if both of us are users of smartphones, we do shoot moments thru our selfie cameras, in January this year I have organized our first photoshoot in Dubai. Time passed by quickly in UAE before our eyes, moments fleeted, but these pictures will forever help us to hang on to those memories a little longer.

Do I encourage you to make the same? The answer is a definite YES! Go further, print them, make albums. Don’t forget to gift one to your grandparents, they surely have your only picture from the kindergarten graduation or primary school. 

Capture raw moments of happiness, perpetuate them eternally.

The beginning: The Amore & Magia journey!

Being at the university is fun, happy and full of beautiful moments. Sometimes it can be amazing and sometimes the opposite. I was studying the second here of university and as everyone, my main goal was to approach and have fun with all the girls in the school. I was in the right track and I was enjoying it!

My best friend in university is Icelandic and as a team we were pretty good. Observing, evaluating and doing actions was our privilege. Let’s start from here, a lunch was going on in one of the best Italian restaurants of the town, and unfortunately the phone starts ringing! Everyone knows the sound of Instagram and everyone knows as well that the specific sound can be a wonderful news for the upcoming night!

Two fantastic ladies trying to follow my handsome friend and not me! I am hugly, everyone knows! We started implementing some strategies and tactics and the first invitation was sent: “Hello ladies, would you like to drink something with us these days? Me and my friend are interested in you! After trying hard and after a little bit of effort we made it! Super happy and excited, everything was organized. A bar by the lake and a few drinks to enjoy the night. I was late, too busy to arrive there on time, but my mind was there, Alexandrina was so beautiful and she is even better now! 

First night, talking, laughing and making fun of me! She started from the beginning, she was aggressive, really aggressive! But I was liking it, and I was playing her game! The first night ended and the only message I received was: Thank you for the company”, like I was a dog!

Alexandrina was avoiding my messages, not replying and acting like she was ok with it! I was getting nervous but I was observing the situation! There was a big gap from the first to the second night, but we made it! I was aware that Alexandrina didn’t want to come, but she was there, not in the right mood. A bottle of wine, talking, talking and talking. I was feeling in love, that beautiful voice, movements and looks. I was drinking a lot, trying to avoid that shyness!

From that time, everything ended and I didn’t know how to approach her. She is so sophisticated, and everything should be evaluated and calculated! The last strategy came to our mind, playing cards! Two times in a row, and a lot of questions: Why are you sad? What happened? Honestly speaking, I was very close to leave that table and go to sleep. I didn’t!

Alexandrina was dating someone, I didn’t know but I had that kind of impression! Through messages, I tried to explain to her the real situation and that I have feelings for her, and the only answer was: Go for it!

I started my amazing journey, it was full of Amore, the Magia arrived later on! An invitation to a restaurant, 5 days after she accepted and the best table on that restaurant was booked! 5 hours of talking and I know just two things: a bill of 140 euro, I didn’t eat anything and I was drunk! I was missing some words and I was so stressed! The most important question: Is it hard for you a distance relationship? The beautiful answer: it is fine, as long as you feel in love with the other person! It was a long night and the last words: Goodnight, thank you for the night!

Three days passed, another date and a bar with amazing live music. It was raining and in a message I just said: I hope doesn’t rain and the instant reply: Rain doesn’t change anything! I was hoping a kiss on that rainy night! So romantic! A perfect table with a sofa was booked, so she could seat next to me. Do you want to know the end? We stayed there for 3 hours and she never seat next to me! That night was impressive, holding hands and touching each other. A goodnight and a small kiss, Alexandrina didn’t see it as a real one.

What happened? A silence that broke my heart, in my mind there was just a thought, I lost Alexandrina! But that amazing time arrived, I need to talk to you! Few hours to understand what was wrong and after the italian class of talking, Alexandrina fell in love! A beautiful kiss and I slept like no one else on that night.

Everything started, long nights, a lot of kisses and sleeping with her on top of me where my chest was dying of pain! It was the best time of my life and without a doubt the best girl in the past 20 years. 

After one month it was time to be apart, the hard time started and tears coming down. It was graduation and I felt like giving her colorful flowers, just a reminder that everything will be fine, I am by your side and our life will be full of happiness. And a small card: Congratulations for your achievement, you deserve it!

Amore was in the air, not at fullest but was there! We love to share our love story and keep in mind that nowadays it is hard to find the person of your life! There is only one happiness in life, to love and to be loved! I love her and I hope she loves me!

A movie starts, and slowly the episodes will continue! The only difference, a movie has an end, we will never have it!

Amore grows and the magic comes along with it!

The start of thousand upcoming stories!

Amore & Magia