We are a couple, we should match!

A relationship is full of moments. Moments where you love at fullest, you are happy and where you believe that nothing can make your life better. At the same time, from time to time few discussions can be a part of you, but we are completely sure that every discussion doesn’t have a sense!

It was a wonderful night, usually when I come back home from work, ready to take shower and put my pajamas on. My fantastic lady wasn’t home and just a few minutes after I receive a voice message. “ Lovie, I am in the mall and I am buying a dress”. My beautiful reply: “Yes baby, buy it, I am sure it is amazing on you”. 

Let’s start from the fact that the next day was Friday and we were invited in a Brunch with some friends. Every time we have an event together, I always ask what she would like me to wear. I bought a wonderful jacket that was fitting me perfectly. I was so happy and excited, however I prepared my outfit one day before. 

We like to have these sexy conversations on the phone: “buy the dress short so I can move it up”, “buy something tiny so that I can see your back”. Basically, a lot of sexy moments going on! A secret guys, my phone is full!

 I started the conversation with the fact that my outfit is ready for tomorrow. The wonderful question arrived: “What are you wearing?” I am not telling you,it will be a surprise.

That amazing lady that I have by my side wanted to know my choice. I finally told her and the first thing was: “Lovie, I think we are not matching”. I got nervous and I instantainely closed that phone. Listen, tomorrow you will go alone, I will not come!

That famous sentence: We should match, we are a couple! I don’t care, I wear what I want for my best elegance. And the wonderful result, that ugly white dress, she was looking like a lady that came from Alaska. When I saw her, I just realized that my previous outfit was matching at fullest, even if she wasn’t at my level. 

Never listen to your partner in these kind of situations, do what think is the best for you and you will survive long in your private relationship. A difficult relationship is what ladies are looking for, and we should be the one to be loved. Use your simplicity, listen to your heart and you will match each other without even breathing. Simplicity is the keynote of all true elegance. Be simple, wear what describe you the best and never match your partner. More colors, more creativity, more love!

Kisses, hugs and everything else.

Amore & Magia

Elegance: A struggle in a relationship, but an essential part of yourself!

Elegance is a physical quality, it is not being noticed, it is about being remembered. Me and my partner wake up every morning with the desire of being elegant, being different from others and always feel that style that is not easy to create. 

In order to be elegant, you need to pay attention to everything around yourself. Movements, actions and attitude. I show you a secret, I always look at the style of a person to understand if she can be my possible partner one day or not. I don’t know if it is something good to say, but I am not feeling comfortable with a person that doesn’t fit my elegant actions and movements. 

As a couple, we complete each other. We love to buy new clothes and having something new to wear is our passion. My partner sees me as a “fashion blogger” and I literally laugh to hear that. 

It was a wonderful morning, that in few seconds became the worst of my life. I am kidding!! 

She asked me to go buy a dress for her, and my presence was fundamental. I felt like no one else, me as the happiest guy ever. Honestly speaking, I was not. We were in Dubai, imagine that infinite city, with super huge shopping malls with more than a thousand shops and a decision that can be unlimited. 

We arrived at the mall, air conditioning on and a happiness that was still in my blood. The listed shops were on the phone, and I was hoping that the perfect dress for a romantic dinner or photo session was found by the end of the day. We entered in minimum 20 shops and I was trying to suggest in every shop at least 10 dresses. Of course, a dress should be tried and that door of the dressing room was closing and opening several times. I was thinking to go in, maybe in the middle of this confusion, I could help with something more romantic and sexy. 

Guys, are you ready for the end? We were around for at least 5 hours, we ended up walking for that shopping mall, me on one side, she on the other side. Not even a conversation going on, the same we were strangers and not aware of being partners. But luckily, we found that beautiful and wonderful dress, that was of course suggested by the perfect gentleman that every woman desires! I am sorry, I am engaged and Alexandrina is jealous.

Anyway, we love elegance, but it is hard to find something that can make the partner happy! But we really believe that it is needed, we should be remembered and our movements and actions should be seen along life! 

Be aware that elegance should be inside and outside. It is not just how you wear, but as well how you carry yourself, how you speak, what you read! 

With an unlimited love,

Amore & Magia